I will tell you about clothes because fashion is what happens when people wear clothes.
Men have great legs; it's almost a crime not to show them off in a pair of high heels. There's a catch though. The problem with finding sexy high heels for men is that quite often it is impossible to find them in men's sizes. This goes doubly if you happen to be long and lanky or built on the larger side of the spectrum.
Sweet shoes that make you just drool when you see them will never adorn your feet simply because they are only made in women's sizes and far too small to slip around your feet. For many men, enjoying women's shoes is a little like being Cinderella's ugly stepsister. No matter how much you try to slip that glass slipper on, you'll never succeed.
Fortunately, men who love high heels don't have to suffer under the tyranny of the evil prince and that uppity little kitchen-maid anymore (who did she think she was anyway?) Your prayers are answered with this series of sites all offering pretty shoes for men in sizes they can wear.
The Best Sites for Finding Heels in Men's Sizes
- My favorite on this list, All Heels For Men offers a wide range of shoes and boots for men, designed in womens styles, but sized for guys. They even have a custom made service for men who know exactly what they want, but can't seem to find it anywhere. With services like this, that perfect pair of heels need not be just a dream.
- Sexy Shoes sells shoes up to size 14. Most men are around a size 10.5, so most men (except the exceptionally well endowed) should be able to find something here that they can enjoy. Though these places aren't vendors, they are great resources for men who wear high heels, so you might want to also check out:
- High Heels Passion, a blog featuring the latest trends in men's high heels. Some great runway pictures which might give men who wear heels hope for a well heeled future. If you want to stay on the cutting edge of high heel fashion as it pertains to men, this is a great place to start.
- High Heel Place, the high heels community with the sexy logo. This is an excellent place to share pictures, video, stories and so much more. A real community for men who like to wear high heels. If you're having trouble finding the high heels you want, need some advice from other men who love high heels as much as you do, or just want to hang out and talk about your shoe passion, this place is worth a visit.
And of course, there's always my blog for men who like to wear women's shoes: He Wears Heels
I cry on the inside on December 14, 2019:
Having size 16 feet is literally a curse upon me....
Richelle on October 11, 2018:
Try being a girl with size 12.5 men’s since she was 12!!!! I hate clothes and shoe shopping!!
Julian on March 12, 2018:
I actually started wearing heels the same time I was introduced to wearing woman's attire. When I met Denise I was 15 and she always felt I had a feminine side and introduced me to waist training. I was eighteen when I began to actually change my body and grew breasts I began to bud and became a little scared. I do have small breasts with normal feminine size areola. I wear heels almost all the time! I have fourteen pair! I love them and I am searching for a woman who will accept me for a long term relationship.
Paul on January 19, 2017:
I've raised the heels on cowboy boots to 6 inches without a problem. Just bolt on a shaped wooden block and paint it. This probably won't work with women's shoes, though, except maybe boots.
William Tracy on October 26, 2015:
I getter a pair of high Heel
Next week about 6"" high for $56!!!
heels35 on April 13, 2010:
these shoes are beautiful would love to wear them every day that we have the courage to come out in them
AnotherGuy7 on February 14, 2010:
Also, if I may for any newbies that come to this post, two other great sites for heels up to size 16 that I have found are howcool.com and snaz75.com. Best of luck!
pauls_boat on October 18, 2009:
great hub hope and i found some great sho sites i have been looking for some nice mary jane shoes with small heal 2inch and found them via one of the sites you have on here and only $34.99 at http://www.dressed2play.com/sc2chheclscm.html
many thanks paul
kfsteve391 from Mesa, Arizona on July 24, 2009:
I always get my heels from shoe stores. I like to see what I am getting and want to get a reasonably good fit. Picked up six pair last week in a Hispanic area of Phoenix, Az. for $24.84 including tax. Heel height goes from 3 to 5.25 inches. They are all new and sexy as they are very strappy. Five pairs were on the discount rack for $2.99 a pair. Also enjoy walking around a women's shoe store wearing high heels.
You Go on March 29, 2009:
We live in a world of label-conscious people. Personally, I'm a male that likes to wear pantyhose. I like to wear them with shorts that are not the typical long shorts most men wear. I'm a 5'9" man. I wore black PH, black shorts, black mens flats, and a nice shirt one time at a mall. I thought the fashion choice was stylish and tasteful. I would have rather worn some high heels with no open toe. I did wear some black high heels with no open toe and a non-feminish rounded shoe with black PH, white pants, and a nice shirt once upon a time. The lady that cuts my hair saw me wearing the clothes and commented 3 times how good I looked. I choose to wear slightly shorter legnth pants when wearing the heels because panthosed legs become very noticeable.
I would love to be able to wear a short spandex dress with PH and high heels, but my obvious masculine look would make me stand out like a sore thumb. Open toed high heels on a man wearing PH does not look good. I hugely enjoy wearing PH openly, but believe me it does not look good to wear open-toed high heels.
Mayble fashion designers need to focus more on mens fashion with PH, pants, short, skorts, shirts, and a new high-heel look for the man in mind. I think there is some great potential for this new look which could really boost sales. Fashion is a lot of psychology among minds.
cestlavie on December 17, 2008:
I love your blogs because I feel you are describing me. As a male, I am "cursed" with very shapely feminine legs, but when "dressed" they are an absolute benefit. At first, I thought 2" heels would be the limit, but after seeing what 3" heels do for the calves and overall posture, I will never go back. Even though 3" heels increase my height to nearly 6' which might be somewhat "telling", if I wear shorter skirts or dresses combined with proper hosiery and shoes, the attention of onlookers is directed downward instead of my height. Women, in particular, enthusiastically compliment me on my legs and choice of shoes and tacitly encourage me to continue. What is a guy/gal/individual to do?